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    dating: would you care?

    would you care if a 17 year old and a 14 year old dated?
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    its their life....let them do what they want.....IMO
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    No. They're not so far in age. If would be my son/daughter, I would agree.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    No.
    But the 14 yr old is obviously being deceived.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    Personally, no, because I'm 14 and gone much older than that ._.
     
         

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    No
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    It's kinda weird... but they can do whatever they want.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    Only 3 years of difference and both passed the age of puberty.
    Well if they both were older then it would be more 'normal' I guess. (I don't see what's wrong with that)
    Personally, I wouldn't care.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    There are adults who are have much greater age differences and yet still maintain healthy relationships. The only problem I see here is that the maturity difference between 14-17 and 40-43 is simply phenomenal. Neither a 14 year old or a 17 year old are overly mature and I don't think it would turn out well. The 17 year old is more likely to push a 14 year old into something prematurely.

    Quote Originally Posted by -Tsuki View Post
    Only 3 years of difference and both passed the age of puberty.
    Well if they both were older then it would be more 'normal' I guess. (I don't see what's wrong with that)
    Personally, I wouldn't care.
    I don't agree that they're passed puberty at this stage. The 17 year old may be close to being physically developed but the 14 year old isn't. That and mentally/socially they're still children.
     
         
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    Re: dating: would you care?

    No, its only 3 years. I don't go 3 years out of my age for dating. Its a rule.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    no its not a problem it all depends one there respect for one another.... there are much larger ages gaps in this world, they should be free to do as they please
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    I have no problem whatsoever unless limits are not crossed
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    It is allowed. I have friends going through this.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    I wouldn't do it, I believe. I don't care if others do. Like others said, in good points, the age difference isn't that bad, but the maturity could be.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    Would it matter if they were 24 and 21?

    The only issue I see is when one turns 18. That's babysitting at that point, not dating.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    As long it isn't MY life.. I don't give a .. Flower.. about it
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    Once their maturity is nearly on the same scale.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    I was 17 and my gf was 14 when we got together. I'm in college now and she is still in High School. O .O
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    Hmm... I think the 'adult way of life' is creeping its way down to younger and younger generations, that is what disturbs me, though let me put it like this: If people want to delude themselves about love, then let them.

    It's their responsibility, though I doubt they understand it completely, and if they end up regretting it or getting hurt, then that's that.
    I, as an older person however, whom actually believe myself to have some insight in what people usually refer to as 'love', if I may be so bold, wouldn't court a young person's delusions on what love is, was this about me, that is.
    I can't honestly think of any young person I've met ever giving me the impression of understanding this matter very well, which might just be my ignorance though.

    So, it's not a question about 'ok or not?', but rather, it's their business, not mine.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    its totally cool if they date cause its their life but i would care if they have sex and she's tell someone about it! He should wait till she's 16
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    If there's consent and they are happy, why would I care? *shrugs* It's their lives
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    Wasnt Romeo 18 and Juliet 14?? No problem for Shakespere, No problem for me.
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    You should look up your state's law. In my state it's illegal for an adult (18+) to date someone under 16. So if one of you turns 18 and the other is still 14...
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    No. Why would I? Only 3 years difference. +That...what ta f- is this?! Are you jelous about your friend that you did this thread?!
     
         

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    Re: dating: would you care?

    im 20 and my gf is 31. :/
     
         

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