[Debate] Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

[Slug Princess]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

[★Kuroh]

most guys are like that but not all of them.

[nickalfred31]

i think people are worried more about getting a job or money, sex is just there for comfort and relief, lol idk

[LordHokage22]

sex is a part of life. the urge to reproduce in a man is strong. and it appeals to us greatly. some of us are just more wild about it.

but its not like I only get into relationships for sex. I do it for the love. sex is just something (imo) that can connect two lovers on a different level and get comfortable with each other.

nothing wrong with sex. its natural.

but I think you should only do it with a person you're in love with.. not someone you just met, or haven't been with for any time at all

[Yasuko Sayomi]

Yup. Guys are pigs. Only thing that they are out for is sex.
There are those guys that aren't like that, but from my experience only one or two aren't like that

[Scorpio0Pharaoh0Titan]

It's because this world has devolved into a ****ing whorehouse. It's sad really. The expectations for the average joe is to see when he can lose his virginity as if that makes him more of a man than someone who waits until he finds that right someone who he can emotionally attach their sex to.

At the end of the ****ing day, it's your life, it's his life. If you two aren't compatible due to ideologies regarding sex and the relationship then you two are not compatible.

Just move on and look for someone who you think is worth it.

my 2 cents.

[~Dream~]

Not every guy wants to have sex.

[Chubby Sage]

I beleive in what your saying strongly I HATE the fact that guys go out for the females look, body, and sexual parts. I believe that if you want a girl or a guy you gotta LOVE them I HATE I HATE I HATE those people who just crave for the stupid sex I mean whats the point of liking a girl or a guy then WHAT HAPPENED TO THE LOVE in the world I've believed this ever since I only love a girl by her personality doesn't matter if she wears make up or not it's her make up thats looking good not her face gosh what do thses insolent guys understand anyway i agree that sex is not a hobby and should'nt be

[Babce]

dont like it ? be a lesbo lol
its life thats what boys are born like, look at the animal kingdom all of the males try to have sex lol

[Biscoe Uzumaki]

You might want to stat dating girls then. Sorry to say boys in highschool are only lookin for sex.

[★-Punk-]

if she doesn't puts out , get out !

[-Haku Yuki-]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

I am 15 and i have made a moral rule to my self not to have sex before marriage >_> even amde it public >.> not every guy just wnats to jump into bed me i don't wanna go to hell,raise a baby while in high school or get aids which your said ex will most likely get

[DrProof]

Yeah.. I'm pretty much like that.

Anyways, I'm like that because I'm still in puberty, and my hormones are crazy I guess.. Plus being a virgin is "not cool" where I live.. So yeah.

[Scorpio0Pharaoh0Titan]

sex is a part of life. the urge to reproduce in a man is strong. and it appeals to us greatly. some of us are just more wild about it.

but its not like I only get into relationships for sex. I do it for the love. sex is just something (imo) that can connect two lovers on a different level and get comfortable with each other.

nothing wrong with sex. its natural.

but I think you should only do it with a person you're in love with.. not someone you just met, or haven't been with for any time at all

Sex is obviously NATURAL. She isn't arguing that point. She's saying that why are guys pigs for the MOST PART.

That's simple, because of the way our society chooses to mature us.

Look at older civilizations. Sex was natural, but there was something called COURTSHIP.

[Yasuko Sayomi]

dont like it ? be a lesbo lol
its life thats what boys are born like, look at the animal kingdom all of the males try to have sex lol

You might want to stat dating girls then. Sorry to say boys in highschool are only lookin for sex.

if she doesn't puts out , get out !

Yeah.. I'm pretty much like that.

Anyways, I'm like that because I'm still in puberty, and my hormones are crazy I guess.. Plus being a virgin is "not cool" where I live.. So yeah.

Not cool dudes.....

[Uchiha Josephus]

i think people are worried more about getting a job or money, sex is just there for comfort and relief, lol idk

^^^ Story of my life right now. Lots of applications, not a lot of responses ...

Anyhow, some of us guys are actually looking for companionship, not just sex. I've already got a ring on lay-away :D

[ninjasrb2]

Man Why does everyone point to man, If sex is all he wants then do be with that certain person , it doesn't always have to be our fault you know.

[MacMiller]

Ahh yes, blame everything on us males. It's not like any females are like that too, right? I totally agree, every single man out there which shall include myself were born to have sex and sex only. We are freaks of nature, we can't control it. It's the same for each and every one of us. It is impossible to find one male out there who doesn't crave the need to have sex. Even if they have other problems to deal with; such as poverty and health, they will always have sex as their first priority.

[blazekev90]

excuse my language, but it's all about busting peaNUT,

[Slug Princess]

Guys, seriously...
I'm not saying that sex is "wrong" ... that's an important part of life. But please, you can't just be interested in that when you love someone. If you love someone it will come eventually and naturally. Trying to get sex from a girl and if she doesn't want to... are you just gonna leave her like that tard did to me??? shame on you if your are like that. Sex is a part of life... but so are FEELINGS!!

[origin29]

loled super hard when i saw the title said nowadays, like it wasnt like that before...

but, this is just another side effect of the degredation of civilization and the oversimplification of humanity. no depth anymore.

[UchihaBrothers]

not all guys are like that. Also if he's in highschool is hormones are probably raging!

Also its not just men, many women are also only looking for sex, trust me if you went to my school you would know what im talking about.

[LordHokage22]

one partner is all I want and all I need ;o and ive had my girl for 3 years now ;o and sex is amazing. but being in love and being able to hold her in my arms every day is a feeling all on its own..

true story x____x

[DrProof]

excuse my language, but it's all about busting peaNUT,

My niqqah. :y

OT: I like sex, things won't change. Go find yourself a nerd, they like to keep it in their pants.

[★-Punk-]

Guys, seriously...
I'm not saying that sex is "wrong" ... that's an important part of life. But please, you can't just be interested in that when you love someone. If you love someone it will come eventually and naturally. Trying to get sex from a girl and if she doesn't want to... are you just gonna leave her like that tard did to me??? shame on you if your are like that. Sex is a part of life... but so are FEELINGS!!

oko i was only kiiding , i was playing online , i'll read the thread .... brb