[Debate] Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

[Uchiha Josephus]

one partner is all I want and all I need ;o and ive had my girl for 3 years now ;o and sex is amazing. but being in love and being able to hold her in my arms every day is a feeling all on its own..

true story x____x

Awesome dude! We're at a little over 5 years (July 2007) and I totally understand!

[Babce]

"Feelings" are strongest thing in the world coz if that wasnt there humans would all be rapists lolol and ya tht must have scked i guess tht guy was a douche bag lol

[Traffy]

Ahh yes, blame everything on us males. It's not like any females are like that too, right? I totally agree, every single man out there which shall include myself were born to have sex and sex only. We are freaks of nature, we can't control it. It's the same for each and every one of us. It is impossible to find one male out there who doesn't crave the need to have sex. Even if they have other problems to deal with; such as poverty and health, they will always have sex as their first priority.

This. If you're seriously judging all men based on one experience you had with a guy then you're the one that needs to grow up.

[Slug Princess]

My niqqah. :y

OT: I like sex, things won't change. Go find yourself a nerd, they like to keep it in their pants.

No one told you to dislike sex!! DrProof!!
seriously... I wouldn't mind to be with a nerd if he loved me and I loved him.
It's about feelings for your partner!! If you really love her you have to give her all the time she needs!
Love is a beautiful thing!
Don't degrade yourselves into GPS for Vag****

[origin29]

loled super hard when i saw the title said nowadays, like it wasnt like that before...

but, this is just another side effect of the degredation of civilization and the oversimplification of humanity. no depth anymore.

before anyone jumps on this post to give me a bunch of flak and put words in my post that were not typed, im not at all saying sex is bad or wanting sex is bad or anything of that nature, all i am saying is that in today's world, far too many for my taste are too simple, and fixated on few things, be it sex, drugs, money etc etc. simple people bore the hell out of me. that is all.

[-Haku Yuki-]

i have a feeling this trhead was made for the purpose of hottest threads >_>

[SasukeTheViper EMS]

I'm a guy, and I couldn't agree more with what you're saying. I personally believe that having sex before marriage is a shameful act.
it is also a shame that there are guys who 'love' girls just to get laid.

[muutobirama3rdraikagemizu]

if she doesn't puts out , get out !

This sums it up

[Slug Princess]

"Feelings" are strongest thing in the world coz if that wasnt there humans would all be rapists lolol and ya tht must have scked i guess tht guy was a douche bag lol

^^^^^^^ Thank you

[muutobirama3rdraikagemizu]

My niqqah. :y

OT: I like sex, things won't change. Go find yourself a nerd, they like to keep it in their pants.

[★-Punk-]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

ok , when i was in high school all i wanted to do was bang & bang ..... i think guys hit that stage quiker than girl , your going to that stage eventually trust me i know .... but what your boyfriend did is what most of the guys do ... is try to troll you in to sleeping with them & if what you said about him dating the whore ..... you got your answer right there , so he's not worth it , dont waste your time in him anymore ...... love only brings hatred * nagato * ..... & i understand that you need to feel love to do it .... its a great feeling
so keep calm & one cool guy like me will find you one day dont worry

[★-Punk-]

I'm a guy, and I couldn't agree more with what you're saying. I personally believe that having sex before marriage is a shameful act.
it is also a shame that there are guys who 'love' girls just to get laid.

such old fashion beliefs * garaa

[Slug Princess]

ok , when i was in high school all i wanted to do was bang & bang ..... i think guys hit that stage quiker than girl , your going to that stage eventually trust me i know .... but what your boyfriend did is what most of the guys do ... is try to troll you in to sleeping with them & if what you said about him dating the whore ..... you got your answer right there , so he's not worth it , dont waste your time in him anymore ...... love only brings hatred * nagato * ..... & i understand that you need to feel love to do it .... its a great feeling
so keep calm & one cool guy like me will find you one day dont worry

Thank you for taking the time to write this. Thank you lovely

[SasukeTheViper EMS]

My niqqah. :y

OT: I like sex, things won't change. Go find yourself a nerd, they like to keep it in their pants.

Yes because acting cool on the internet actually makes you something, right?

when you don't crave for sex it doesn't mean that you are a "nerd" , it means that you have morals. love isn't just about having sex. and when you say that it's not cool to still be a virgin where you live, you are just proving that you are a phony..a mere follower of stupid trends.

such old fashion beliefs * garaa

Call it "old fashion beliefs", call it whatever you want..
I still believe that it's far better than what most of the people do nowadays.

[FTG V2]

Three things Guys like.

1.Football
2.Money
3.Sex

So, it's obvious we think about "Sex" too much.

[Boskarta]

Actually guys that are like that were made that way by women who were *****es to them.

Sex isn't even that good for guys it's sort of disappointing in the end but during it you feel good as in it makes you forget whatever crappy thing some girl that broke your heart done, that's why a lot of guys become manwhores, to take their mind off being hurt.
So they become all about sex and not about feelings.

Men may be worse for that but women are way worse for lying in a relationship.


I find it annoying when girls moan about guys being dicks when they go out with "badboys" etc who are clearly not nice all the time.
If you want a nice guy DON'T GO OUT WITH A GUY THAT ISN'T it's quite simple.

Also most girls tend to friendzone nice guys then moan when all they have left is dicks, who's fault is that?
Friendzoned people may be weird, but at least they would be devoted to you.

[Slug Princess]

Yes because acting cool on the internet actually makes you something, right?

when you don't crave for sex it doesn't mean that you are a "nerd" , it means that you have morals. love isn't just about having sex. and when you say that it's not cool to still be a virgin where you live, you are just proving that you are a phony.

^^ thank you for this.

[muutobirama3rdraikagemizu]

ok , when i was in high school all i wanted to do was bang & bang ..... i think guys hit that stage quiker than girl , your going to that stage eventually trust me i know .... but what your boyfriend did is what most of the guys do ... is try to troll you in to sleeping with them & if what you said about him dating the whore ..... you got your answer right there , so he's not worth it , dont waste your time in him anymore ...... love only brings hatred * nagato * ..... & i understand that you need to feel love to do it .... its a great feeling
so keep calm & one cool guy like me will find you one day dont worry

Eh, eh O.o takes out popcorn this will be good a person trying to smack on a furum

[Slug Princess]

Eh, eh O.o takes out popcorn this will be good a person trying to smack on a furum

nah, he's my friend

[rollin]

you don't know what it's like to be a guy
once a guy gets a boner that's it and guys get boners by just looks and most of the girls these days dress provocative(easy way to put it)
while girls think about feelings and shit like that

[Uchiha Josephus]

Yes because acting cool on the internet actually makes you something, right?

when you don't crave for sex it doesn't mean that you are a "nerd" , it means that you have morals. love isn't just about having sex. and when you say that it's not cool to still be a virgin where you live, you are just proving that you are a phony..a mere follower of stupid trends.




Call it "old fashion beliefs", call it whatever you want..
I still believe that it's far better than what most of the people do nowadays.

This guy, I like his style ^^^^

[Wang]

Sex is the only thing guys have been looking for since the dawn of time, it's not a new development.

[Slug Princess]

you don't know what it's like to be a guy
once a guy gets a boner that's it and guys get boners by just looks and most of the girls these days dress provocative(easy way to put it)
while girls think about feelings and shit like that

feelings aren't "shit like that", you know?

[wargear]

Advice that can only come from age and experience...

Three things a man (or anyone really) should value above all else: Honor, Respect and Loyalty
Apply those values to your relationships treat her like a lady and make sure she knows your there because of who she is and what she's all about and you won't have to ask for sex...
Sex is part of a relationship but is the LEAST important and is more of a bonus than a necessity....

[Slug Princess]

Advice that can only come from age and experience...

Three things a man (or anyone really) should value above all else: Honor, Respect and Loyalty
Apply those values to your relationships treat her like a lady and make sure she knows your there because of who she is and what she's all about and you won't have to ask for sex...
Sex is part of a relationship but is the LEAST important and is more of a bonus than a necessity....

my exact beliefs!
Thank you!