[Debate] Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

[Jim Rider]

guys r c... and girls are s... way of life. - and those ones dont deserve sh.. except their own type.
girls moan about guys being c... but then thts all they look for and wonder why sh.. happens
and guys either like the s... cos their easy or the other guys look for girls with morals n self respec.

[HadouKage]

well first of all, ill break this down for you. You are a women, so you wouldn't understand a males mind. You ever wonder why in the middle east the women dress the way they do? There is a reason for that, it is not to be mean, its to control the temptation. A womens legs, her butt, her cleavage, just the site of all of that, will make any man hormonal. Take a look at how 99% of the women in this country dresses, half of them are half naked, flirty, or just show too much skin. Then women want to wonder why all we want is to have sex. In all honesty its womens fault men are like this. I will tell you something about men, if we see a classy women, one who takes care and respects herself, we will give her that same respect, shoot most men wont even try to **** a girl like that because they can tell she isn't that type of women. If all women had respect for themselves and dressed a little less....naked, then men would not be the way they are now. You cannot show us how big your butt is then be surprised when we want to shove something in it. It is in our nature to be this way with a women. and the fact that we see it everywhere, sex is always on our mind. So do not be dissapointed in the men, talk to your fellow women about how they carry themselves and how they act. For a nation cannot be built on a worthless women, the more respectful the women, the more respectful society is around that women. You need to look at things from both sides ,instead of just assuming that men are pigs just because, no we have our reasons for the things we do, and it starts with women.

And you say we shouldn jump into sex without the love first? well women don't give us a chance to love them first, first thing we see is your body, so we fall in love with that first. You don't give us a chance to know you personally, to know your mind, no no no... all women do is take away the mystery of your temple, your sacred body. Dress differently, and maybe you will see a change in the type of guys you attract

Fail, there are girls that are well endowed and dress properly and guys still want to bang
Same goes for the flat chested, the way women dress play a factor yes, but it's mutual (for both guys and girls)
It's all about self control

[KuramasBiju]

Most of the girls can ofer nothing else but sex..... maybe he was hopping just to have sex with u, maybe for him u wasnt "perfect" ..... yeah we are gyus we all want to have sex... but sex is not the prime thing, just most of the girls can ofer only that... and maybe u was one of these girls for him.... but u didnt even had sex with him... so he decided not to waste his time with u. U cant be sure that u were perfect.. and everything was perfect... oh why Im so perfect and etc. Dont get me wrong Im not saying u are bad,stupid or something ... maybe he just didnt find u worthy enought to be with u

[markdabomb22]

Because i like to ****.........

[HadouKage]

Most of the girls can ofer nothing else but sex..... maybe he was bored and hopping just to have sex with u maybe for him u wasnt "perfect" ..... yeah we are gyus we all want to have sex... but sex is not the prime thing, just most of the girls can ofer only that... and maybe u was one of these girls for him.... but u didnt even had sex with him... so he decided not to waste his time with u. U cant be sure that u were perfect.. and everything was perfect... oh why Im so perfect and etc. Dont get me wrong Im not saying u are bad,stupid or something ... maybe he just didnt find u worthy enought to be with u

Wtf are you talking about?

[TrollingSage]

Yea sure blame us guys. Sure some guys can be horny pigs but so can girls. I know a 16 year old girl who's had sex with more than 70 men. Only 16 years old!

[KuramasBiju]

Wtf are you talking about?

Maybe in her case sex wasnt the problem... just maybe.... she cant be sure that she was the best gf for him.
And we are not looking for sex only... but some girls can ofer only that.. and maybe she was one of these girls for him without the part with having sex

['Nāpalm]

I didn't have sex with my wife until after 2 years of dating. I respect my wife and girls and don't just look for sex in them... in fact sex is not even my top 5 priority of what I'm looking for in a girl.

[Strata Spartan]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

Case in point, that particular ex-boyfriend gives us a bad name. If he was geniunely sincere and was all about being with you he would of respected your wishes to not have intercourse until you were ready. Compromising....this is what he lacks.

Then again...ah hem...you could always wait until he's no longer in that immature "hormones going crazy" phase.

[Ldude]

I guess being a virgin makes you a loser these days

In my school, it's the opposite. Most people are. Someone who isn't is either called a **** or manwhore behind his/her back.

[HadouKage]

TBH OP
It goes both ways, I dated a girl who was sex crazy. I took her out on two dates and I had to stop her from having sex with me
Crazy I am???? Idk
Stupid? Sometimes I think so
But I have self control

[-Logic-]

Typical female, generalises us males and assumes the only thing we want is sex. Good job. Didn't expect much from a Tsunade fan anyway.

[HadouKage]

In my school, it's the opposite. Most people are. Someone who isn't is either called a **** or manwhore behind his/her back.

Having intercourse doesn't make you one (unless you hopping around for some)
I wish I lived in your town, here in my home town, it's consider an Xbox Achievement when you pop a cherry

[kooko]

Who told u all guys want sex ??
For mature people above 20 we don't want that ..
I think only teens care about sex more than real love

['Nāpalm]

Typical female, generalises us males and assumes the only thing we want is sex. Good job. Didn't expect much from a Tsunade fan anyway.

LOL

[Ldude]

Having intercourse doesn't make you one (unless you hopping around for some)
I wish I lived in your town, here in my home town, it's consider an Xbox Achievement when you pop a cherry

Well, I go to a private school. I really don't suspect it's the same situation for the public schools in my area.

[HadouKage]

Well, I go to a private school. I really don't suspect it's the same situation for the public schools in my area.

I honestly don't think it would make a difference here lol

[ChocolateBear]

In highschool I got b***rs for no reason guys are just built like that

[ITACHIUCHIHA101]

It's the best!!!!
Have you tried it?

[killerman82]

Not cool dudes.....

Agreed

[TheBrightSide]

Sex is fun. Every guy will agree, and you will never be able to change the mindset or rather the instinct of the average male. Personally, i wouldnt leave a girlfriend strictly on the fact that she wont have sex if i actually have feelings for her, but i do hope you and him did SOME things. No guy can deal with that sexual frustration. Blue balls is a pain no guy deserves.
EDIT: As far as your concerns with pregnancy and diseases, use a condom. Its that simple.

[Nikes]

Sex is a great thing.

All you have to do is be safe about it.

Don't let pregnancy or std's scare you, if you sleep with random people than you are just dumb.

[gameove]

a man gonna be man and a women gonna be women .nobody perfect and you'll females are just as bad as us.

[-Logic-]

a man gonna be man and a women gonna be women .nobody perfect and you'll females are just as bad as us.

Thank you.

[★-Punk-]

sex
make up sex
drunk sex
friends sex

Those are the best .......