[Debate] Why is it sex the only thing guys are looking for nowadays?! O_O

[gas83091]

man i feel like that's all girls want what happened to girls who want love?

[Aaroninja]

Your situation really sucks but it's not fair to completely generalise guys. You have had ONE bad experience with ONE guy, that does not call for a generalisation.

[Supreme x Uchiha]

Sex is awesome, you should have some Slug Princess. I'm a guy, and i've had my share of one night stands. It's a good feeling, relieves stress and brings out feelings of dominance. Yup

[Baka Sennin]

well, i get your point, but try not to generalise people based on one-off incidents. sadly, what with the pressure guys put on each other to lose their virginity asap and the objectification of women, finding decent people isn't all that easy. but they're still there, just more and more uncommon like the thin people

[ziggyZ]

fukk oath ay

[Katkot]

No, who told u we only care about sex ..

You are wrong girl

[darthdawg]

I dont think thats the only thing a guy wants. me and my girlfriend are very happy with each other and i love her. yet ive never onced pressured her to do anything she didnt want to do. You just happened to get a guy that didnt appreciate what he had. and i think hes the one who missed out.

[Silverblade]

Lack of booty makes a man moody.

[novacore]

I think that promoting a better sexual conduct on guys is really important and that is why I made this thread.
There are more important things in life that just "a hook up".
Guys, I'm really disappointed and disillusioned about this fact. I'm not being biased when I talk about this matter.

My last bf just left me like a month ago just because he wanted to sleep with me already and I told him that I wasn't ready for that jump.
He never told me he left me because of that but from my perspective:
-Everything was great, we used to have fun and I was (am) ridiculously in love with him even when he wasn't that "good looking" guy. But I liked him because he never pushed me to do anything and everything happened very naturally. He used to take me to places and we used to have lasting conversations. Suddenly he asked me when were we gonna sleep together. I explained him the fact that I wasn't (still not) ready for that. He insisted a couple of times more and after a week he just broke up with me saying that "he needed some time and space for himself".
Now he's seeing another girl who is known to be a big ***** and rumor has it that she has slept with half the school's guys and she's only 17 just like me.

Guys, no one is supposed to jump to a sexual relationship where there isn't love... there are things that take time in life like to feel that you are fully prepared for such an important decision as it is having your first sexual relationship.

Love someone and wait for the right moment when you both feel that the natural time for you has arrived. There's more time than life, says my Granny. Don't rush into something you might regret later on. For your safety and for the one you really love's safety. Let it flow... stop being retards like my bf.

If all guys are only after that "one" thing I rather be with girls ... so grow up ya'all!!! I'm serious!

thats weird because all the girls ive known, like sex just as much as guys. and guys probably like sex a lot more i guess because it feels great lol. and its much more fun than talking about boring shit everyday.

[Slug Princess]

I don't want to be crude here or anything, but I need to say the following:

First of all, you're 17 as you said yourself. Have you ever seen guys their hormone levels around that age? =_=
It's human nature that we think about fornication before we actually think of love. Love is a concept that has been made by humans. You can't blame anyone for that kind of behavior. Also, the part of our brain that lets us "love" is far "younger" (less developed) than the part that causes our lust. Simply because of the fact that lust and the need to fornicate and make sure our species continue to exist has been a priority for far longer than love.

Second of all: you're 17. Stop worrying about stuff like this! If he doesn't want you over something like that, let him go. He's not worth it. You're young! You'll be going to college soon I assume, you'll be having a whole other life. There's so much ahead of you, don't let something so trivial bother you as much as it does now. It's 1 bump on the long road of life.

Third: I don't know what else to say, I'm bad in these situations =_=

Thank you Wesobi ... I guess you are totally right.
Thanks for the advice. really appreciate it.

[moongem]

Sasuke doesn't want sex. This is why the women want him.

[~WastelandSociety~]

Not all guys are only looking for sex.

[xXBlazinNinXx]

These days like the newer gen yeah but the past gen no

[Bluedevil]

As a guy I would like to reply to this.

Primordial
Males are at a genetic, evolutionary level, meant to spread as many gametes as possible so that his genetic material will have the best chance for their DNA to replicate into the next generation.

Females, at this level, are looking to choose the best DNA traits to get get passed on. Such traits are size, aggressiveness, plumage, courting call: w/e.

Humanistic
Humans have taken this genetic race to another level by inventing a complex social-societal ritual. The reason for this evolution is to provide children with skills they need in order to better survive until they themselves can reproduce. The type of ritual depends entirely on the culture at large and is instilled in us from birth onwards. These rituals include sexual selection.

Males from around the world have traditionally utilized skill based displays, such as tilling the land or running a company to attract female attention.

Female have traditionally made themselves look and act like the perfect providers to attract male attention. a.k.a corsets, foot binding, child rearing, and the whole domestic thing

Modern
This idea of love and relationship evolved out of the Victorian period. Before then it was strictly based on "skill value" a.k.a what each party could provide for an equal exchange. So a stone mason could marry a farmers daughter but a king could not. The Victorians said that this idea of skill exchange was incorrect and went against nature and insisted that this was not socially acceptable. That instead individuals had to only prove themselves only to one another.

The Beatniks and hippies then continued this line of thought and said that even this idea of one partner and marriage was against nature/ society and started to promote free love where any individuals would sleep with anyone else. because that is what happens at the Primordial level.

(However, This ideology soon fell apart because of the social-societal rituals demanded monogamy and gender rolls.)

In short you and him were operating in different levels and looked at the same issues from different points of view. Please do not generalize all Males and immature teen boys as one in the same. Its offensive and bias. Hope you find the guy your looking for.

[badassjuly18]

men are horny im a 13 year old boy and i can barely contain myself from having a sixsome in the bathroom with the girls at school

[★-Punk-]

The new generation will always surpass the old generation ........ even in sex

[Phantom Guardian]

that's a myth. not every guy is looking to get in a girls pants. a lot of us are now days but there are some good ones. It's also it's a few of the girls fault for letting them. it fuels the fire kinda, so it's a two way street in modern day society. But not everyone is like that, that's what I'm saying.

[Lrrrrr]

Hm.. What a generalization.

[Sasuke082594]

LOl at all the guys commenting here blaming their genes and horomones when it's clear they are all really horndogs xD

[lilshell43]

I beleive in what your saying strongly I HATE the fact that guys go out for the females look, body, and sexual parts. I believe that if you want a girl or a guy you gotta LOVE them I HATE I HATE I HATE those people who just crave for the stupid sex I mean whats the point of liking a girl or a guy then WHAT HAPPENED TO THE LOVE in the world I've believed this ever since I only love a girl by her personality doesn't matter if she wears make up or not it's her make up thats looking good not her face gosh what do thses insolent guys understand anyway i agree that sex is not a hobby and should'nt be

That sig is awesome. lol

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

http://m.youtube.com/?reload=3&rdm=m...?v=0U4DcNPwkvs

[Kira was Righteous]

You want the truth? Its because we find women attractive lol

Hm.. What a generalization.

Indeed

[novacore]

LOl at all the guys commenting here blaming their genes and horomones when it's clear they are all really horndogs xD

rofl that is def not the greatest song in the world.....its all breakdowns...hahahah. breakdown bands are like the new Pop music. Everyone is able to do it and everyone is. Its just too easy and repetitive. And mindless drones like repetitive shit cuz its so easy to headbob too. Try some periphery haha. I'll even link a song that actually isnt as technical to u and is easy for ur breakdown loving since its one of their least technical songs and easy to get into.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kfPNEGy5L-w

[General.]

Slug lady. .
I kinda disagree. not all guys think like that but like wes said. Guys are like.. the most horn dogs around 15-18.. So their naturally *******s.. Personally im a virgin and I do want to engage in sex BUT it would eat me alive if i do (well it did. but not with my gf). had plenty of times i couldve but i was like " O_o (Faizon wtf u doing bro. save your sausage meat for a chick who willing to lay down on it EVERY night not just one night)" then i tell them to hit the road .Yes i have said this before..My gf says she dont want to steal my virginity but shes the horn dog.. would it be wrong if i made her rape me? lol
anyways... like wes said.. IF you arent ready and he cant respect that. Fck em.
its rare to find virgin women and dudes nowadays... and to shed a bit of light on us guys. I dated a girl who really wanted the D.. we broke up and she got mad and told me. "I only wanted you cause you look like you got a big D*** and i wanted to try it out" I didnt know whether to be happy or mad. so i was like ... "Cool"

[Naix]

That's a funny title because I think girls are too into sex these days.