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Bro advice.
Ok, just a little pre story.
My gf went to this college town and she saw one of her exes. Later on she would tell me that she did love him, but anyway, he cried and explained that he wanted her back. She said she didn't want any part in it.
So we're sleeping together, and in the middle of the night I get up and she calls me his fcking name. She says "Dennis?" In getting up I woke her up.
Anyway, I asked her why she would call me that, and she says "i really don't know", and I asked her what all happened with her and her ex and she said he cried and blah blah blah. But later that day I told her to be honest about everything and she said she stayed at his house with her friend.
What do you think it means?
Think it sparked some emotional shit in her and she misses him?
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Re: Bro advice.
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Re: Bro advice.
You should ask her what she "thinks" her feelings are for her ex. The best way to sort through all this is to talk it out. How long have you and her been dating?
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Re: Bro advice.
But in all seriousness. You should sympathizes with her. In all honesty humble yourself and try to be the best person for her. That way she won't look into the past and cry.
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Re: Bro advice.
That's one of the worst situations to be in when having a gf.
sucks for you man :/
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Re: Bro advice.
Idk. Just use some Common Sense.
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Re: Bro advice.
She banged her ex dump the b**** broskies before hoskies. That's what I would do but hey depends how you feel
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Re: Bro advice.
We been together for almost 2 years. But she lied about staying at his house and tried to keep it away from me.
I don't know if I should sympathize with her cause she said he was crying and she didn't have any part in it.
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Dude that's BS i would tell her to get on her knees..Who goes to an EX'S House with a friend? Makes no sense.
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Re: Bro advice.
She state diver her exes house....you not knowing about it makes it a pretty easy decision. Dump her ass
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by YowYan
That's one of the worst situations to be in when having a gf.
sucks for you man :/
So what should I be thinking?
She also got a text from some dude that night, and I waited till the morning to tell her I saw it and she said she only got a text from her friend. And she deleted the texts from the guy so I guess I will never know.
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Re: Bro advice.
You're young hit the poon and leave. **** relationshits.
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by Brd17
She state diver her exes house....you not knowing about it makes it a pretty easy decision. Dump her ass
Even if she was with a friend??
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by CommonSense
So what should I be thinking?
She also got a text from some dude that night, and I waited till the morning to tell her I saw it and she said she only got a text from her friend. And she deleted the texts from the guy so I guess I will never know.
Yep, something's definitely going on with that. If she admitted to still loving her ex, you should probably end it. :shrug:
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by CommonSense
We been together for almost 2 years. But she lied about staying at his house and tried to keep it away from me.
I don't know if I should sympathize with her cause she said he was crying and she didn't have any part in it.
Dude she's crying because she knows she screwed up and knows feel guilty dump her less stress
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by Ldude
Yep, something's definitely going on with that. If she admitted to still loving her ex, you should probably end it. :shrug:
No she said she lovED him before, but than she CALLS me his name in the middle of the night, and tries to keep her staying at his house away from me.
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Re: Bro advice.
if you really like her, just try to get over it.. if happens again then its a bad sign.. if not just dump her..
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by villian55
Dude she's crying because she knows she screwed up and knows feel guilty dump her less stress
The guy is the one who cried. But yeah she did end up crying about it, and idk if thats something to cry about by just telling me. Even though she says nothing happened maybe something did. Idk.
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by CommonSense
Even if she was with a friend??
Sorry dude she broke your trust. She is taking advantage of you bein too gullible. The friend helps out some but she should have never been at his house, heck she shouldn't even be talking to him since he has feelings for her
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by CommonSense
Ok, just a little pre story.
My gf went to this college town and she saw one of her exes. Later on she would tell me that she did love him, but anyway, he cried and explained that he wanted her back. She said she didn't want any part in it.
So we're sleeping together, and in the middle of the night I get up and she calls me his fcking name. She says "Dennis?" In getting up I woke her up.
Anyway, I asked her why she would call me that, and she says "i really don't know", and I asked her what all happened with her and her ex and she said he cried and blah blah blah. But later that day I told her to be honest about everything and she said she stayed at his house with her friend.
What do you think it means?
Think it sparked some emotional shit in her and she misses him?
Dude, don't listen to these 12 year olds who've never had a relationship that say you should dump her.. how do YOU feel? You should forgive her b/c she hasn't called you by his name before right?.. only because of the state she's in right now did she call you his name. It'll passs over soon, don't worry about it.
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Re: Bro advice.
 Originally Posted by xxSalamanderxx
if you really like her, just try to get over it.. if happens again then its a bad sign.. if not just dump her..
I can't get over it, it always comes up.
And why I made this post is cause I just seen a message she sent to someone DIFFERENT from her ex. Her asking "Do you miss me?" and it made me think about it.
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Re: Bro advice.
The longer you say the harder its going to be. My uncle had the same situation and he took his easy way out but ours was sad and sorrow
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yes she misses him. at the very least she was in a bed with you and was thinking about him enough that she called you his name. if she was kinda half sleep and she did that then i understand but then if she was up and aware and she did that then she might have been up that night just thinking about the situation that happened between him and her. be careful man and let her know that if you two are gunna continue that she must keep it 100(be real) with you.
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Re: Bro advice.
dude shes most likely cheating on u and if she isnt she most likely will, i know this cuz i went thru the same thing bro
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