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    Friend Zoned :(

    Has anyone on this site ever been friend zoned before

    Cuz right now I am

    I've known this one girl for a few months and I really really like her
    And I mean she is the only girl in my short life that I've ever actually had these types of feelings about
    And the really sucky thing is is that she knows how much I like her and she does have feelings for me but she's not sure if she wants to have a relationship

    And before anyone says that it's just cuz I'm young and there are other girls
    Someone has to relate to understanding when you first had the same type of feelings for Someone and didn't want to lose them

    Just asking for advice
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Go for it, bro. Ask her out if she likes you and you her. Otherwise whilst your in your thoughts someone else will just sweep in and take her.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    You were friendzoned, but she still likes you? And you guys still talk? I can't help but think to myself "That's cute."
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Let whatever happens, happen. If it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    What about taking a chance and just go for it?

    Unless the risk would be losing her as a friend if rejected, you have nothing to lose.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Uchiha Usman View Post
    Go for it, bro. Ask her out if she likes you and you her. Otherwise whilst your in your thoughts someone else will just sweep in and take her.
    That's what freaking sucks
    I've told multiple times that I've liked her and she's told me the same
    But she doesn't know what she wants and if she does want something with me

    It ****iing tortures my brain
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by chad062388 View Post
    Let whatever happens, happen. If it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to.
    Saying "It wasn't meant to happen", in my opinion, is an excuse for failure.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    ---> Hmmmm. If you are really sincere, then pursue her. But Dont' "attack.".Too suddenly, or she will be afraid and worst she will doubt your intention.
    Romance is like a Slow Dance..BUddy.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    If she "isn't sure if she wants to be in a relationship" then "she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you" (maybe right now, maybe ever but these things change).
    But you say she likes you so I have a satanic plan for you:
    Pretend nothing happened, keep calm and never bring the subject up again. In other words show her that you like her but "okay I 'm not gonna die if you don't want to be in a relationship with me".
    At the same time, destroy the image of everyone that tries to approach her in a cool way.

    Sincerely, The Manipulator :D

    (then again, if you are don't think you can manage this, just talk to her, get ready to be rejected in a lame way (maybe not but the way I see it chances are that you will ) and move on (that's difficult )

    There is also the possibility that you misunderstood and nothing you say about her is true (chicks are crazy sometimes :P )
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Janin View Post
    ---> Hmmmm. If you are really sincere, then pursue her. But Dont' "attack.".Too suddenly, or she will be afraid and worst she will doubt your intention.
    Romance is like a Slow Dance..BUddy.
    This guy is correct!
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    I agree with u

    I wouldn't ever try to "attack" her with my affections
    I do appreciate my friendship with her but no matter how much I try not to my heart will always want her more than a friend
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Just go for it. Or stay here with us in the Friendzone.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Kyo4 View Post
    If she "isn't sure if she wants to be in a relationship" then "she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you" (maybe right now, maybe ever but these things change).
    But you say she likes you so I have a satanic plan for you:
    Pretend nothing happened, keep calm and never bring the subject up again. In other words show her that you like her but "okay I 'm not gonna die if you don't want to be in a relationship with me".
    At the same time, destroy the image of everyone that tries to approach her in a cool way.

    Sincerely, The Manipulator :D

    (then again, if you are don't think you can manage this, just talk to her, get ready to be rejected in a lame way (maybe not but the way I see it chances are that you will ) and move on (that's difficult )

    There is also the possibility that you misunderstood and nothing you say about her is true (chicks are crazy sometimes :P )
    Life is a *****
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Misaki Yata View Post
    This guy is correct!
    Of course she is because she is a girl :D
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    some girls are smart, they'r not dumb. they'l Know you like them yet they'l act as if they dont know.. they will purposely lead u on along with other victimized guys. u gotta watch out for them, they are C unts. but there is also a chance that she likes you too & too young to know how to express her feelings properly, so its also up to you to make it happen
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    but if u really like her, and even if she rejects u multiple times. it doesnt mean u lost, u may yet continue ur pursuit and depending on ur Will and determination for her heart. she may yet yield to your arms =}
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by The Demonic Kazekage View Post
    Has anyone on this site ever been friend zoned before

    Cuz right now I am

    I've known this one girl for a few months and I really really like her
    And I mean she is the only girl in my short life that I've ever actually had these types of feelings about
    And the really sucky thing is is that she knows how much I like her and she does have feelings for me but she's not sure if she wants to have a relationship

    And before anyone says that it's just cuz I'm young and there are other girls
    Someone has to relate to understanding when you first had the same type of feelings for Someone and didn't want to lose them

    Just asking for advice
    This is want you must do,if she really "likes" you like she says she does,tell her that you can't be friends anymore and don't speak with her a few day/weeks.Now here's the trick,you mustn't speak with her at all.If she really liked you,she then will realize that she misses you and she will try to contact you,after that it's a piece of cake.This is a win/lose situation so it's up to you.If you want to stay in the friendzone till a douche take's her do nothing if you want to win her you know what to do.But before you apply what I said be sure you first told her how you feel.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Aresfour View Post
    but if u really like her, and even if she rejects u multiple times. it doesnt mean u lost, u may yet continue ur pursuit and depending on ur Will and determination for her heart. she may yet yield to your arms =}
    My fellow friend,this is not a drama this is real life.Determination alone can't win a woman's hearth,we don't live in the middle ages anymore.If you just keep pushing like a lil dog she will eventualy get tired and find you uninteresting,stop giving crappy advice.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by ReZ View Post
    This is want you must do,if she really "likes" you like she says she does,tell her that you can't be friends anymore and don't speak with her a few day/weeks.Now here's the trick,you mustn't speak with her at all.If she really liked you,she then will realize that she misses you and she will try to contact you,after that it's a piece of cake.This is a win/lose situation so it's up to you.If you want to stay in the friendzone till a douche take's her do nothing if you want to win her you know what to do.But before you apply what I said be sure you first told her how you feel.
    I've told her multiple times
    I understand what your saying though
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    I have the same problem I have known this girl for 2 years and I am her best "boy" friend but if I ask her out I think she would feel weird and I don't think she loves me
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    At times like this you need some meth.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by The Demonic Kazekage View Post
    I've told her multiple times
    I understand what your saying though
    And she said she likes you but she doesn't know what she wants?That's a lie,or she's trying to decide if you're worth it,just "grab a hold of your co*k"and do what a man would do,this is for all you scared lil ****'s(pardon my expression) IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU AND FRIENDZONES YOU,MOVE ON.Don't become too atached on a girl,and btw dude my method it's not risk free(you could lose her)but if you do,then you know she was not worth it.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by ziggyZ View Post
    At times like this you need some meth.
    Neh,just some balls.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    If you don't rode for the ship then the ship will leave you.

    Other words, go for it and don't make same mistake as I once did. Better be a No than a never.
     
         

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    Re: Friend Zoned :(

    Quote Originally Posted by ajflash View Post
    I have the same problem I have known this girl for 2 years and I am her best "boy" friend but if I ask her out I think she would feel weird and I don't think she loves me
    Same exact thing as me
    I'm not trying to say I Love her but maybe from other people's perspective that what it looks like
     
         

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