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    How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Sadly a girl at my in my year at school passed away today; it was an asthma attack.
    It's horrible that she died, I'm not gonna pretend that I knew her personally, I had nothing against her, I just didn't know her too well.

    Though, many people were very affected by her passing, especially a friend of mine. In all my years of knowing one of my best friends at school I have never seen him cry, until today, her death upset him a lot.

    How would you get over the loss of someone close to you?
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Hope that it will be Better and the that he ( the one you lost ) is in a Save please so you Don't have to worry about she/him
    anymore
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Drink till you pass out everyday for the rest of your life. You'll forget eventually.
     
         

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    Don't want to think about it!
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    I honestly believe I am emotionally stunted. My only reaction to anything like that is anger. Or I just don't feel anything. I believe in Heaven so I simply hope that person went there.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    A classmate of mine died in the last year of elementary school. I didnt cry. I lost my piano teacher and 3 grandparents as well. I cried only at the funeral of my grandpa. once when I was in hospital for a longer time, several people died while I was there, even somebody in the bed next to mine...So I've grown to accept death.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Time, I guess. If I lost someone important to me, what can I really do? Eventually, you'll come to terms with what happened, and move on in your life.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Define "close" to me.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    You don't ever "get over it", and certainly not anytime close to the incident. You just learn to live with the loss, everything else is kind words and lies.
     
         
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    edo tensei them back
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Time is the true healer. It's very important to allow yourself to mourn though. If you don't, it can be very unhealthy. Best thing for your friend to do is first mourn, then keep going on with daily life. Don't forget her, but don't let her death consume him either. In time the pain will fade, but the memory will remain. Have him think of the good times and maybe even talk to a counselor or someone who could help him with dealing with her death.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    I would get passive. That's how I usually cope with disappointments and losses
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Time. Time's honestly the only thing that can help you get over the death of someone. The amount of time depends, but no matter the situation, time's honestly the only thing that can help you (That's my opinion at least)
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

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    Define "close" to me.
    It's a pretty simple question. Anything from an old friend to an immediate member of your family.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Im working in a hospital im surrounded by death
    First it was very hard to see death people and actually see people die who you love or like as friends but believe me the time lets you forget everything you will always remember their faces but with time all passes i know it sounds cruel but there is no way to deal with death
    The time takes every anger and sorrow with you
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Drinking usually. It's not the best way to deal with things I know, but it helps full the pain a bit. My friends and I had a close friend die a while ago. We all got hammered, cried for a while, talked for a while, passed out, and did the same things for about a week or so. Yeah, it got pretty bad. So don't do that.

    Edit: There's no shame in crying, especially for a lost friend.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Recently a guy I worked with, a friend committed suicide. I was shocked to my core hearing about it. However, knowing the guy like I did, I knew he would want everyone to move on and not halt our lives forever.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    When I was about 4, I had a dream about having sex with ravioli (my favorite food), and I was pleased...

    That was the death of my sanity, may it rest in peace.

    But honestly, death happens, try not to get too worked up over the death of someone you have no relationship with, unless you plan on sympathizing with her family and friends.

    Stressing over her death won't benefit you, or her family.
     
         

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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    Quote Originally Posted by GwemBaba View Post
    It's a pretty simple question. Anything from an old friend to an immediate member of your family.
    Not for me. My old friends mean nothing to me compared to my parents.That's why I asked.

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    When I was about 4, I had a dream about having sex with ravioli (my favorite food), and I was pleased...

    That was the death of my sanity, may it rest in peace.
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    Re: How do you deal with loosing someone?

    The best thing is to accept that it's happening and remember the good times with the person that you've llost because that's something no one can away from you the memories you had with that person hope this helps your friend!
     
         

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