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    Falling in love with someone over the internet

    And not even knowing what they look like. You fall in love with them just because what's on their inside and for who they are.

    Has this ever happened to you before? Or would you rather make sure that one person is your type and then decide to fall in love or not?
     
         

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    When u love someone u love them from ur heart not by their face or how they look and no this hasn't happened to me but these kind of relationships don't usually last long
     
         
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    It's a trap!
     
         

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    I've fallen in love on the internet before, Wang is amazing
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

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    I've fallen in love on the internet before, Wang is amazing
    But.. Isn't he a guy?
     
         

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    But.. Isn't he a guy?
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    I love everybody on the internet.
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    I have seen his face and body. So I technically fall in love with him over Skype. u_u
    I never liked him around the base, but damn stubbornness/craziness and curiosity brought us together. >_>

     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    It happened to me. She's the love of my life...at least for now. ;p
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Quote Originally Posted by Shiina.. View Post
    I have seen his face and body. So I technically fall in love with him over Skype. u_u
    I never liked him around the base, but damn stubbornness/craziness and curiosity brought us together. >_>

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    OT: Meh, I'm a hopeless romantic so it happens from time to time. I try not to think too much of it because usually a relationship would be impossible.
     
         

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    Hurmm no comment..
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Yes it has.

    Well whenever someone falls in love, there's almost always aspects of that person that they don't know about. There will always be risks involved in love. No matter what. Humans are very curious about the unknown, that's how relationships start. The girl that sits next to you in class, you want to get to know her. Despite knowing very little about her, there's a feeling in your heart, and then you realize you have a crush. You may even feel kinda down if she starts dating someone else. But why? You don't even know her. Is this foolish? Who knows. But it's what makes us human and have been the commencement of a lot of relationships.


    Also, it's funny how some of us look down on others for falling in love with a person online. Yet I'm sure that a lot of us fell in love with a particular book, a song, and even a 'childish' manga. All thoughts and words generated from another human being, nonetheless they have touched us in some way. Is this foolish? Who knows. Though as I said before, we are all human.



    Online, a person's personality can still manifest itself in the form of words. And as described in my second paragraph, words have a way of touching us. Though it even goes a bit further, we know that the person is human, and is communicating with us. Not a book. In my first paragraph, I described our curiosity and crush on a person we have yet to know. And being online eliminates certain barriers like shyness, we can easily initiate the dating process. All of us think and act with our feelings, so thinking one way of commencing a relationship is foolish, since a lot of humans think and feel differently. If we all thought and felt the same, the world could be a very boring and unproductive place, it's the imagination and desires of many that brought us to this stage of living.


    Also, I notice that some say they would never fall in love online. But there's a difference between "You would never fall in love online", and "You would never allow yourself to be put in that position". A lot of people that speaks like this just don't take the risk, they avoid it altogether.
     
         
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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    I saw a girl's behind on cam once, and I thought she lived in the city next to mine. A few days later, I walked past her in the mall... It was awkward.

    That's my story.
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Quote Originally Posted by -Yami- View Post
    Yes it has.

    Well whenever someone falls in love, there's almost always aspects of that person that they don't know about. There will always be risks involved in love. No matter what. Humans are very curious about the unknown, that's how relationships start. The girl that sits next to you in class, you want to get to know her. Despite knowing very little about her, there's a feeling in your heart, and then you realize you have a crush. You may even feel kinda down if she starts dating someone else. But why? You don't even know her. Is this foolish? Who knows. But it's what makes us human and have been the commencement of a lot of relationships.


    Also, it's funny how some of us look down on others for falling in love with a person online. Yet I'm sure that a lot of us fell in love with a particular book, a song, and even a 'childish' manga. All thoughts and words generated from another human being, nonetheless they have touched us in some way. Is this foolish? Who knows. Though as I said before, we are all human.



    Online, a person's personality can still manifest itself in the form of words. And as described in my second paragraph, words have a way of touching us. Though it even goes a bit further, we know that the person is human, and is communicating with us. Not a book. In my first paragraph, I described our curiosity and crush on a person we have yet to know. And being online eliminates certain barriers like shyness, we can easily initiate the dating process. All of us think and act with our feelings, so thinking one way of commencing a relationship is foolish, since a lot of humans think and feel differently. If we all thought and felt the same, the world could be a very boring and unproductive place, it's the imagination and desires of many that brought us to this stage of living.


    Also, I notice that some say they would never fall in love online. But there's a difference between "You would never fall in love online", and "You would never allow yourself to be put in that position". A lot of people that speaks like this just don't take the risk, they avoid it altogether.
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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Quote Originally Posted by Machiko View Post
    And not even knowing what they look like. You fall in love with them just because what's on their inside and for who they are.

    Has this ever happened to you before? Or would you rather make sure that one person is your type and then decide to fall in love or not?
    or for what that guy has lied to you about
    what if he said he was a young smart 23 year old but was actually this
     
         

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    I think it's pretty normal, most people here are in love with me & I don't post pics
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

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    I think it's pretty normal, most people here are in love with me & I don't post pics
    Who's in love with ya?
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Don't trust the internet :3
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Quote Originally Posted by Machiko View Post
    And not even knowing what they look like. You fall in love with them just because what's on their inside and for who they are.

    Has this ever happened to you before? Or would you rather make sure that one person is your type and then decide to fall in love or not?
    This is emotional love, not physical love. This type of attraction is based upon how you feel towards their personality, it is much more powerful and harder to break out of because you gain that emotional connection towards each other.

    However, on the internet you have to be cautious. You dont know whos on the other side trying to take advantage, so regardless on how you feel. Its better to be safe than sorry.

    Successful relationships can be thanked to internet dating sites because they match you up with someone whos not exactly 100% compatiable but probably 80%. I mean you dont want someone whos too perfect for you. Drama in a relationship is the foundation, the arguments, the disagreements is what makes a good relationship.

    Love is the good and bad, which makes something so imperfect.... Perfect!
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

    Well my friend's sister's friend found her love on forum too and they married already

    It is not impossible.. and i knew few couple in NB.. although some doesnt last long i hope they will find happiness
     
         

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    Ive already fallen...
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

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    or for what that guy has lied to you about
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    Wow I lol'd so hard that's why u shouldn't trust people on the Internet
     
         

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    Re: Falling in love with someone over the internet

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    Wow I lol'd so hard that's why u shouldn't trust people on the Internet

    You shouldn't trust people anywhere be it online or offline, if you haven't gotten to know them. A person can be just as deceiving offline as they are online. In fact, being with someone physically is even more dangerous if we are speaking in terms of deception. Someone on the internet has very limited control. A physical presence can be powerful, don't underestimate it. A kiss, a touch, all of it can be used to deceive and trap the heart. Such a devious person can even rip one from the grip of friends, deafening their lover to all outside advice. It would be extremely difficult for someone to get this kind of control from just conversation over the internet. To all those that lack experience, we are all still human, and yes even on the internet, our true personality and intentions will surface over time. It is safer in a lot of ways. While they have access to our feelings, they lack physical power. With offline dating, a person has access to both, thus making it more dangerous.
     
         
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