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    Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    I really love my Girlfriend but not as much as she does love me. And because of that an one-sided love started to take over. I mean she'd do anything for me and wouldn't mind to be around me for 24/7 But I really need my space and whenever I ask her if I can get a week for myself she gets heartbroken I mean this sh*t lasts 1 year and 5 months already.. I'm trying to grow up along with the relationship but she stills acts like we're in our first months Am I the one who didn't deserve her love or is she just too childish?
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    is she insecure? seems like shes either trying to fill a void or shes just afraid you'll leave her or something..
    maybe if she finds something she likes to do on her own, like reading a book or going out with friends, it might help.
    something to remind her that she can enjoy herself and still be happy without always being by your side physically.
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    If she can't understand when you need space, it's not gonna work.
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    Quote Originally Posted by Ldude View Post
    If she can't understand when you need space, it's not gonna work.
    we don't read minds either, so the guy also has to speak up and communicate properly. but if shes being really immature and stuck in her insecurities even though the guy has clearly told her about it, then yeah it wont really work.. you've gotta stay on the same wavelength ya know
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    Quote Originally Posted by Hotaruko View Post
    is she insecure? seems like shes either trying to fill a void or shes just afraid you'll leave her or something..
    maybe if she finds something she likes to do on her own, like reading a book or going out with friends, it might help.
    something to remind her that she can enjoy herself and still be happy without always being by your side physically.
    I bet she is but I won't leave her, I just think she has some trues issues but there is nothing I can do against it.
    I tried to do my best to calm her down but she still acts insecure. I was afraid to mention the "space thing" because she might exaggerate and think that I really want to leave her. I don't want to hurt her feelings so I don't f*cking know what to do!
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    Shit too tight, tell her to back the **** off or someone gonna be ****ed.

    She hot?
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    Quote Originally Posted by Solidus View Post
    I bet she is but I won't leave her, I just think she has some trues issues but there is nothing I can do against it.
    I tried to do my best to calm her down but she still acts insecure. I was afraid to mention the "space thing" because she might exaggerate and think that I really want to leave her. I don't want to hurt her feelings so I don't f*cking know what to do!
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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    She's too childish in this regard. You need to have a serious talk with her. Make it clear that you're not breaking up with her, but you do need space just as any other normal human being does. If she starts to get upset, just continue explaining it and hope for the best. Not as if she can get too upset anyway, since your relationship is still going to go on either way (whether you get space or not) since you really like each other atm.
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    Bad sign.
    Your relationship is not healthy anymore.
    Best advice ? One Word .four Letters. TALK.

    We cannot give you a specific or perfect advice for we dont know both of you personally or how was your situation really.
     
         

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    Re: Females, I need your adivce.(Badly)

    Possessive relationships are no good
    First of all, be open with her. Tell her what she's making you feel, without ever being hurtful, since she seems to be a bit sensitive. Make her understand you have no intentions of leaving her anytime soon. She must have her own passions. Find out who these are and motivate her into starting out activities related to them. Talking and telling each other what you think and feel is very important. Don't forget that. And best of lucks~!!
     
         

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