Children of today cannot own their mistakes. It is always someone else's or something else's fault. I'm not successful because of my boss, I'm like this because of my genes, It is all my parents fault, I was born this way, it is because I'm black, it is because I'm white, I murdered my entire family because I am "insane"... etc etc etc. This is loser talk because you are always placing your bad choices on someone/something else's shoulders. To learn and improve yourself from repeating the same bad choices you have to acknowledge that you yourself are to blame for what is going on around you. Thanks to anonymous "scientists" people are always hoping on the "recent study has shown" excuse again and again placing blame on something other than themselves.