You're right it isn't an easy choice.
Originally Posted by DeathandHealing
But if a person choose to have sex,then it's the person fault to get pregnant.
Why do it,when you know you can't afford the child.
That's when you have them up for adoption.
People who have Abortions live with regret for the rest of their lives and they Hurt MORE so then
ANYONE else. But I support someone who makes a tough choice and lives with it then someone
who jumps on the mommy train and not be a responsible parents. Look at how many single mothers
there are throwing away their entire lifes progress to barley raise a child. Look at how many
children there are who have to struggle HARDER then everyone else because their parents
were not ready to have a kid.
I have friends whose parents weren't responsible and lack money so they put them up for adoption and another family took them in and raised them well....
While most didn't,but they made the best of it and came out living well as adults.
Pro-life supports support unborn "children", But as soon as that kid is born they don't give a ****.
The same people marching for Pro-life run around turning their noses up at single mothers.
Those SAME people drive by the homeless shelters everyday where these parents who couldn't
afford it are living and eating. yet this people have a say at who can and cannot have children?
No,most of these Pro-life supporters (that I know of around my area and in church ) give money to the parents that are having a baby,that they can't raise with little money they had at the moment.
These same people also volunteer to help the homeless and give what money they can give.
Though there are most people that are cold hearted and don't care but there are a lot that you probably don't see or hear that do care.
But these people can't be every where at once and know where the child is at to help them or his or her parents.
Plus there are donations as well that people do.
I'm sorry to hear that, but don't blame someone for not showing up to find you.
I'm Sorry but where was the "pro-Life" mobs when I grew up being passed home to home In foster
care like an object. Where were they when my mother lost custody of me because she couldn't afford
to raise me? Where were they when I spent 10+ years in strangers homes before being thrown out on my own when I turned 18?
And lastly where were they when my mother had TWO More children because she wasn't aloud to have an abortion
after some abusive D-bags dragged her down even further?
As much as people like to help out,and they're out there,they can't be in many places.
Nah,they were probably in a different location and don't have any information on you to know you needed help or your mother.
I will tell you. they were in star bucks on apple mac books making stupid signs to picket with against a cause they don't understand.
They were posting "KONY 2012" on facebook but not doing a damn thing about the problem after the Iphone 5 was released.
People Have the right to have a choice. But it does not give you Pro-life supports the choice to choose for them. So MANY people could have been MUCH more but instead where forced to live a life of stress and hardship while never reaching their potential.
Sorry,but no one is forcing anyone to have sex.
It's the dumb teens and young adults fault to choose to have sex,yet know the risk of getting pregnant and choose to stop a life from growing.
Or didn't know they were pregnant and it was too late. So they had no choice but to raise the child or find someone to take care of them.
Even I,who don't have a job at the moment, don't go around sleeping with women cause I know sex:
- is only for those that can afford a house and have a good job.
- Not for teens that are still in school or young adults ,like me, looking for a job,etc.
But don't jump the gun on me or get angry,
I'm a little pro-life and pro-choice:
I don't like the fact a person would like to get an abortion cause to me ,even if it's consider not a "baby" yet, I believe it's still have life. That it is slowly growing ,and it's very soul is forming as well.
Though I also think the person have the right to choose,even though they shouldn't have sex to begin with if they know they can't afford a child :sy:
But if they were raped,then I don't really have an opinion on that yet.